Autism and ADHD
At Excel Together in New York, we support families navigating both conditions. An ADHD and autism comorbidity can make daily life more complex, but a clear ADHD and autism diagnosis helps families and providers foster an effective environment for growth.
Autism with ADHD presents a unique challenge, with these children often struggling with social development, sensory sensitivities, and attention difficulties. Parenting with ADHD and autism isn’t easy. At Excel Together, we see firsthand how recognizing both sets of needs leads to measurable improvements in communication and self-regulation.
Common Challenges We See
Families often come to us with similar concerns, such as:
- Trouble focusing or completing tasks.
- Difficulty transitioning from one activity to another.
- Struggles with social play and peer interactions.
- Sensory sensitivities that impact learning or development.
Why Diagnosis Matters
Diagnosis matters. An accurate ADHD and autism diagnosis opens the door to targeted strategies. We’ve seen families gain relief when they finally understand why certain approaches work– or don’t.
- Benefit of Diagnosis
- Tailored therapies
- School accommodations
- Parental confidence
- Impact on Families
- Faster skill growth
- Better learning outcomes
- Less daily stress
As an expert team of Board Certified Behavior Analysts (BCBAs) and behavior therapists, our experience shows that structure, predictability, and consistent positive reinforcement reduce stress for both children and caregivers. Families managing autism with ADHD often find benefit in visual supports, movement breaks, and social modeling– but early interventions are key.
Strategies for Parenting with ADHD and Autism
We’ve found that certain approaches for an ADHD and autism diagnosis are more likely to lead to progress throughout our years of practice. Parents can try:
- Breaking up tasks into smaller, simpler steps.
- Adopting visual tools like schedules and timers.
- Using positive reinforcement for positive behaviors consistently.
- Incorporating sensory-friendly breaks into tasks and activities.
Parenting any child isn’t about perfection– and it’s no different for a child with developmental differences. Patience, flexibility, and celebration of small successes are what truly matter.
Measurable Outcomes from Our Work
Families often ask how we track progress. At Excel Together, we use real-world benchmarks when it comes to measuring outcomes for children with an ADHD and autism diagnosis:
- Children stay on-task longer during structured play.
- Children are able to follow multi-step directions with less prompting.
- Parents report reduced outbursts or other unwanted behavior during transitions.
- Siblings notice calmer interactions at home.
Siblings are often not at the center of the story when there’s a child with autism with ADHD in the home; however, it’s important to consider their role in progress. At Excel Together, we measure outcomes by working with the entire family– making sure solutions and therapies keep all family members in mind.
ABA Strategies for Growth
Our work demonstrates a combination of strategies and has brought results to those parenting with ADHD and autism.
- Approach
- Play or game-based therapy
- ABA techniques
- Sensory accommodations
- Benefit
- Builds social skills
- Reinforces learning
- Improves self-regulation
- Example
- Turn-taking games like Candyland or Duck Duck Goose
- Token systems
- A weighted lap pad
A blend of play, behavior strategies, and sensory tools can foster a balance that sets your child up for success with both conditions.
FAQs
How do I know if my child has both autism with ADHD?
A professional ADHD and autism diagnosis requires a consultation with a developmental pediatrician. If diagnosed, we’re here to help.
How do I get started with ADHD and ASD therapy for my child?
Therapy begins with an initial consultation. If you live in New York City, we welcome you to reach out to us for an assessment, and we’ll guide you through the process.
Can parents get involved in autism or ADHD therapy?
Yes! When parenting with ADHD and autism, actively participating in your child’s therapy positively boosts outcomes. We’ll provide you with strategies to carry over therapy techniques at home.
Support for Parents and Caregivers
You’re not alone, and we’ve supported many parents through feelings of uncertainty. Over time, they gained confidence using consistent strategies.
Tips we emphasize:
- Stay consistent.
- Connect with other parents for support.
- Ask schools for clear accommodations.
- Celebrate progress over perfection.
At Excel Together, we’ve witnessed how understanding both conditions transforms family life. Start your child’s journey with us. Contact us today to schedule an assessment.